Sunday, January 13, 2013

On Separation And Loss... All Change!!

I've always had a bit of an issue with Separation and Loss.  Although I am ruthless about work-based separations and loss, (I never look back; once I'm out of there, I'm out of there) and house moves, (onwards and upwards, and anyway, I always take half my old garden with me to the next; I dragged my mulberry in a pot through three house moves, until I felt I had the right garden to plant it properly/forever...), I find some friendships very difficult to move on from.*
This requires no comment from me, stunned as I am. 
This required a comment from me, stunned as I was.
This beggars belief.
I've been reading Helen Yemm for years, and have loved everything she writes, except of course her liking for cats, which we all know really are the d****'s familiar.  I may yet fill the balloons with H2SO4...  As for Phantom and Angela, I think theirs is pretty much the first blog I stumbled into, and am utterly delighted that they are back blogging again after decades of neglect.  And the other thing is a real bollocks.  As I said, I've always had a bit of an issue with Separation and Loss.


Cottage Smallholder said...

I've also had a bit of a problem with separation and loss - that's why this relationship took so long to finish.

Strangely, I feel less separated and lost now I'm alone.

Steve said...

Thank you again for not abandoning the Phantom during his long, dark, teatime of the soul!